Treat others how you would like to be treated ................ I am now just starting to see how to deal with others energies by remaining totally calm and listening. Really listening and if they ask you for something see if it is in your means to give it to them. I mean really do you know what it means when they say “treat others how you would like to be treated.”?  Whoever came up withthat saying meant exactly that. If you want someone to be listening to you thenyou have to listen to them if for nothing else but to be able to say hey I listenedto you and I expect the same in return. I am willing to go the distance as longas the person telling me to is willing themselves.  Do you want someone to love youunconditionally? Love them unconditionally. I mean really its that easy.